Dear Annie: My husband and I moved to a different state this past summer, and there are a lot of things I am happy about, such as great schools for our kids, more to do and a husband who is happier at his job. However, I hate our new house. With a passion. I had my doubts about it from the minute we looked at it: It’s close to a big highway, so I knew the noise would bother me, and some red…