Dear Annie
Dear Annie: For a long time now, my wife has had a habit of making our server choose what side dishes she is going to have.
If there is a choice of wedding soup or creamy chicken and potato or broccoli or peas, my wife will often say to the server, “Surprise me.” I think this puts pressure on the server.
What if my wife does not like the choice that someone else made for her? — Puzzled in PA…