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Dear Annie: We have a relative coming from out of town to visit for a week. I’d love to say I’m excited to see her, but I’m not. Last time she stayed, I was ready to push her out the door! She’s bossy and tries to tell me what to do and how to do it. I don’t appreciate people questioning me, especially in my own home. She’s fanatically religious. I’m the opposite. She pushes religion and her God on me to the point that I get so angry. And she gets worse when she’s drinking. She’s not even here and I’m ready for her to be gone. How do I handle this? -- Unwelcome Dear Unwelcome: If you were ready to push her out the door after her last visit, then I don’t recommend opening your home to her again. Sounds like it’s too late to rescind the invite, but in the future, when she comes to town, tell her you’d love to see her but your week is a bit too hectic to host this time. Offer to meet up for a meal or an activity instead.