Dear Annie
Dear Annie: My mom is in her 80s and in so-so health.
She’s at home for now with a full-time caregiver. There are three siblings who all take turns with her. The problem is that we’ve started to disagree.
Even though the decision-makers are legally in writing, the oldest constantly battles us for what she wants to happen in any given situation. We end up caving in and resenting her to keep…